Sunday, April 18, 2010

How To Rekindle Your Love Of A Lifetime

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Wanting to win back a love is understandable.                                There are those moments in life that are so perfect but then, for some reason, gets taken away. 

You spend your days following that wondering, “what if…”. It doesn’t matter what the reason was for the two of you going separate ways, in your mind it was a mistake. 

There is a chance that the love that you lost could be feeling the same way. They could be wondering how to win back a love of a lifetime as well.

It is the stuff that great stories are made of. Two love struck souls who crossed paths once upon a time separated by circumstances beyond their control. Both spending years thinking about that moment that is burned forever on their memories. Both longing for what was and wishing that it could be again.

Find them

If you are at a point in time where you are alone and have failed in relationships since then, it could very well be that the one you dream of is supposed to be with you. Don't just sit around and reminisce, do something about it. If you don't know where they are now, find them. There are many things that you can do to find them. Use the resources you have available to win back a love.

Once you have located them, it gets tricky

To win back a love, you first need to find out their situation.
The best thing to do is to write a letter or get a message to them saying that you were going through some old things and ran across something that reminded you of them. Just let them know that you were curious about them and ask what is going on.

Let them know a little about your situation. Whatever you do, don't let them know that you are in the hunt. You need to make it seem like your only interest is mild curiosity. If they are involved with someone and are happy, you don't want to mess that up. It could be that the image of that perfect romance was just an illusion, which it very well could be. You still have to know about them.

Don't force anything

If it seems that they are available and you aren't going to be infringing on anyone's turf, feel free to strike up a friendship. Let the friendship go along naturally.
After you have been corresponding for a little time, instead of asking for their phone number (if you don't have it already), give them yours and say, "Feel free to call anytime".

Doing it this way takes the pressure off the situation. 
If they want to talk to you, you will know.

Be patient

You may find yourself moving from a friendship type relationship to a stronger type of bond before too long. Seeing each other in person will come naturally if it is supposed to. It won't take much time for you to find out if they are still the one you love and if the feeling is mutual. It could take a little time so you have to be patient. If something does happen, congratulations! You have found it is possible to win back a love of a lifetime.

If you would like some more great information on how to rekindle your love of a lifetime.....
I have a friend named T. W. Jackson. T Dub authored a simple, down to earth step by step guide called The Magic Of Making Up.  Take a look I think you'll like it.